Something to reflect on.

 C O M U N I C A T I O N

It is quite curious how the subject of communication is usually approached in different ambits and perspectives, which makes us realize the extent of this word. It is common to hear that communication is the basis for a good relationship (not necessarily a loving one); but, are we really aware of it? Have we ever thought about how much we can learn by having a good communication with the people surrounding us? Have we ever dimensioned all we could avoid? Have we ever thought about how we could grow as a human being? I would say no. 

As individuals, we have the ability to communicate in different ways, by signs, gestures, movements, writing, etc.; however, I would say that there is no better way to convey what you mean than through words. By talking you can let your partner know that you are not comfortable with any attitude he/she is having with you; by talking you can tell your boss that he/she is being a little rude to you while you are giving your best in the position you hold; by talking you can tell your family that you really appreciate their love and care for you, but that you still need a bit of freedom to make decisions and control your life. You see? by speaking up and making proper use of your words and voice it is possible to improve your environment, to change what makes you discomfort. 

I know that for many, expressing themselves through words causes them a lot of fear or insecurity, but if we are conscious of how important and beneficial it is, why not give it a try? In the end, we also have the ability to learn and unlearn at any time we want, we all are capable of getting used to new things or people, of creating new habits. 

I consider that communication and education are closely related, how a person expresses him/herself in situations of anger or disappointment, for example, lets us realize how educated that person is. Good communication can be a key for success. 

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Music

 Shakira and the MTV VMAs 2023 

The MTV Video Music Awards is an award show hosted by MTV channel to honor the bests ones in the music video medium. It is held once a year in the United States, just before the summer.  

Shakira is a Colombian artist known internationally for her singular voice and her amazing dance moves. From a very young age, she began her musical career which over the years has given her great success and the MTV VMAs 2023 has been no exception. 

Last September 12th and 13th Shakira attended these awards giving a 10 minutes presentation where she performed some of her greatest hits along her career. She made his flexibility known by switching from one genre to a totally different one in a matter of seconds. Undoubtedly, what has caused the most buzz among us in the Latin community and therefore the media, is the fact that she won the special Video Vanguard Award, being the first Latin American artist to do so. 

In her speech, she thanks her family, her parents but especially her children to whom she says: "thank you for cheering me up and making me feel that mama can do it all". These words full of love touched many people's hearts, after the news of their father's infidelity and seeing how Shakira, in spite of her responsibilities as an artist, does not leave her children alone. 

As it is said, Shakira actions many Latino families where the mother has always been the one who struggles to raise her children; where the mother plays many roles, but does not neglect her role as MOM in all circumstances.  

Current 2023 MTV Video Music Award

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LATEST NEWS!

 ABORTION DECRIMINALIZED IN MEXICO 

This week, the news of the decriminalization of abortion in Mexico has been all over the media.

I read and also saw a couple of videos explaining the difference between decriminalization and legislation as many people show concerns about how it would be done in public institutions, and so do I.

What feminist groups have been claiming for in recent years is "free, legal and safe abortion"; however, the fact that the Supreme Court of Justice has decriminalized it in all Mexican territory does not mean that it is already available to every woman who wishes to have it done.  First off, abortion procedure may require a lot of supplies and training of the medical staff, which may take a little more time. In addition, it is said that this decision does not make abortion a citizen's right, as it is decriminalized but not legislated, so that any institution can still refuse to carry it out.

 A large part of the population, mostly religious, is quite disappointed by this decision since they are totally opposed to abortion legalization. On the other hand, feminist groups celebrate this event as a real achievement, since it's undoubtedly made history. 

From your standpoint, do you consider it was the right thing? Would you like the same to happen in our country?

From my perspective and the stage of my life I am living in today, I would say YES. 

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